Finding a Sex Therapist Near Me: How to Know If We’re the Right Fit

If you’ve ever typed “sex therapist near me” into Google, you’re not alone. People search for sex therapy for many reasons—concerns about intimacy, mismatched desire, pain during sex, communication struggles, relationship changes, trauma, menopause, or simply wanting a healthier, more fulfilling connection with themselves or their partner.

But once you start scrolling, the next big question often becomes: How do I know who is actually qualified—and who is the right fit for me?

Let’s break that down.

What Does a Sex Therapist Actually Do?

A sex therapist is a licensed mental health professional with specialized training in human sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. Sex therapy is talk therapy, not physical or hands-on work, and it focuses on the emotional, psychological, relational, and sometimes medical factors that influence sexual well-being.

People often seek sex therapy for:

• Low or mismatched desire

• Difficulty with arousal or orgasm

• Pain with sex

• Sexual shame or anxiety

• Relationship or communication concerns

• Life transitions (pregnancy, postpartum, menopause, illness, grief)

• Exploring identity, boundaries, or values around intimacy

Sex therapy is also not just for couples—many individuals seek support for personal growth, confidence, and healing.

Why AASECT Certification Matters

When searching for a sex therapist near you, one of the most important things to look for is AASECT certification.

AASECT (the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) is the gold standard for professional training in sexuality. As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I have completed:

• Extensive, specialized education in human sexuality

• Supervised clinical training focused specifically on sex therapy

• Ongoing continuing education to stay current and ethical in practice

This means you’re working with someone who is not only licensed, but deeply trained to handle

sensitive, complex, and often vulnerable topics with care, competence, and respect.

How I May Be the Right Fit for You

Finding the right sex therapist isn’t just about credentials—it’s also about feeling safe, understood, and supported.

You may feel aligned working with me if you’re looking for:

🌿 A Judgment-Free, Inclusive Space

I work from a sex-positive, trauma-informed, and affirming lens. There is no “normal” you have to live up to—only what feels authentic and healthy for you.

🧠 Whole-Person, Holistic Care

Sexual concerns rarely exist in isolation. I integrate emotional health, stress, identity, relationships, life transitions, and even grief into our work together.

💬 Practical + Emotional Support

Sessions blend reflection, education, and tangible tools—so you’re not just talking about what’s wrong but learning how to move forward with clarity and confidence.

🔄 Support Through Transitions

Many clients seek sex therapy during periods of change—menopause, postpartum shifts, medical diagnoses, relationship transitions, or burnout. These seasons deserve care, not silence.

What to Expect When Starting Sex Therapy

It’s normal to feel nervous before your first session. We move at your pace. Early sessions focus on understanding your goals, history, concerns, and what a fulfilling outcome would look like for you.

You don’t need to have the “right words. "You don’t need to know exactly what’s wrong. You just need to be open to exploring what could feel better.

Looking for a Sex Therapist Near You?

If you’re searching for a sex therapist near you and want someone who is professionally trained, compassionate, and experienced in helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy with confidence and care, I’d be honored to connect.

Virtual and in-person options available & Consultations available to ensure the right fit

You deserve support that honors your body, your relationships, and your whole self—not just one piece of the puzzle.