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When was the last time you flirted with your partner without expecting sex? Not when you were trying to initiate something. Not when you were hoping a back rub would turn into something more. I'm talking about genuine flirting, affection, and romance without an expectation attached. Remember when you first started dating? You made plans. You sent thoughtful messages. You kissed just because you wanted to kiss. You made an effort to make each other feel special. Then life happened. Careers,...

Want to be more attractive to your partner? Try being someone they don't have to manage. That might sound harsh, but let's talk about it. One of the most overlooked parts of maintaining sexual intimacy is what happens when you're not having sex. How do you show up in your relationship? Do you follow through? Do you recognize when your partner needs support? Do you take initiative, or do you wait for someone to tell you what to do? Sexual attraction is complex. But for some people,...

Want more sex? Start by taking something off your partner's plate. I know. That probably wasn't the sex advice you were expecting. But if you're wondering why your wife, husband, or partner doesn't seem interested in sex anymore, the answer might have less to do with attraction and more to do with exhaustion. As a certified sex therapist, I encourage couples to look beyond how frequently they're having sex and examine what's happening in their relationship outside the bedroom. Because...